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Also Check out: To make it easier to revisit this exercise, we have created a Short Exercise Special Audio found at the bottom of this post.
The Three Spheres of Thriving Partnerships
Presence – being present to reality – conscious
available to experience experience.
where can you take the most ground towards shared objective partnership?
represence top person – do this exercise with them
(about 1.5 minutes)
Examine each relationship through the lens of the 3 spheres of true partnership
Blue Sphere what do you believe is happening – what is your personal reality –
(1 min)
red sphere- completely separate from you what do you think they believe is happening – what’s the story they would tell? – note – almost always a positive/forgiving story
(about 1.5 minutes)
Purple Slice – where do y’all agree – where do you disagree?
(about 1.5 minutes)
Now – bring in Yellow – what are the facts of the matter, of the case?
Are you focused on reality – discovering reality – investigating – sleuthing? or on the story?
(about 1.5 minutes)
Orange – notice/recognize that there are places where they disagree with you, and they are right.
(about 1.5 minutes)
It is good for your thriving to leverage those
also places they disagree with you where they are wrong.
It is good for thriving to
1) verify you are understanding the accurately
2) check your logic/evaluation with them to get agreement that they are wrong.
Blue places you disagree with them and you are wrong
What might those be?
Apologize if you were a jerk around those things.
Green and places you disagree with them and you are right –
You already know that one like the back of your hand Bbest of the set, most likely.
Purple – where do you agree – but you are both delusional
Hard to tell – your big “check” is in on the game.
Stay alert – reality is your friend.
vs. where are you focused on reality
Shared understanding
Power to create
Special Audio:
This is a short version of the Lesson 5 Exercise that you can revisit at any time to work through present challenges.
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