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Re-presence the 3 issues from the first two sessions.
You have envisioned through the right/right attitude for relating.
You have examined and imagined Presupposing Positive Intention.
Now, let’s create some win-win agreements around them.
60 seconds
Represence #1
identify the issue and underlying boundary issue
60 seconds
Ask yourself the higher purpose question
Clarifying your higher purpose
60 seconds
Rinse repeat on higher purpose
60 seconds
Imagine asking other higher purpose question
write down the answers –
60 seconds
rinse/repeat
60 seconds
Imagine solutions that might work to synergize both higher purposes
60 seconds
rinse/repeat
60 seconds
Imagine that that worked – anything else needed to be satisfied?
clarify additional positive purposes for yourself.
60 seconds
Clarify additional positive purposes for your partner.
60 seconds
Find synergistic solutions
60 specify next actions and schedule
rinse/repeat
Gets easier the second time
Let’s go through those 10 steps again on a different issue
Rinse and repeat with same partnership mid-level emotional intensity
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